It’s no secret that music is a social bonding agent. It has the power to take the most diametrically opposed individuals and unify them through the need to physically or emotionally respond to what they’re hearing. Sometimes, however, our need to connect with others and feel accepted within larger groups can come at the expense of considering our most unique and personal musical tastes. In other words, we can trick ourselves into liking songs based on public opinion regardless of whether those songs are truly reflective of the music we would personally love even more.
A fascinating study reported by Berkeley College of Music provides a clear example of this phenomenon of musical groupthink. The study showed that musical preferences are directly tied to the formation of ingroups, the biases we create towards outgroup members, and even the assessment of threats from other seemingly different populations. The best part: it’s entirely primal. Babies, for instance, will not only dance to music they like, but adjust how they react to music they do or don’t like based on how other people are reacting around them. Humans naturally want to emulate other humans’ responses to the songs they hear, and they’re willing to blunt their personal definition of good music in the process.
What’s the point? Well, first, groupthink is not necessarily a bad thing. Understanding what music is considered popular is a key aspect of learning, empathizing, and feeling accepted within a community. But the second, just as important lesson is that you probably have strange music tastes that you aren’t appropriately feeding. While being a part of one or many groups is important, the eccentric sounds that make your tail wag are core to defining you as a person. If the songs inspiring those emotions are limited in scope, you inherently limit the emotions you allow yourself to experience.
So take a step back, recognize your socially strangest music tastes, and make the conscious decision to amplify them. Explore songs and genres that aren’t normal in your inner circle. Put your weird on blast, and don’t be afraid to share that weirdness with the rest of the world. You’d be shocked at how many people latch onto originality when they aren’t tethered by groupthink.
This playlist contains my favorite songs from the past year ranked in order from 1 to 200. There are plenty of pop songs, but also a number of interesting, strange, and/or unique songs unlike anything I’ve ever heard before. I hope you enjoy some as much as I do. Cheers!
- My Golden Years by The Lemon Twigs
- Lucifer by A.G. Cook
- Bloomed by The Flamboyant Train
- redrum by 21 Savage
- Zelda by TOLEDO
- Arkansas Is Nice by Bailey Bigger
- Espresso by Sabrina Carperter
- Feeling Not Found by Origami Angel
- Against The Grain by Julianna Riolino and Adrian Underhill
- In The Night by TSHA
- Back to You by Denitia
- COPY COLD by Mach-Hommy and Black Thought
- Forever by Hovvdy
- I Could Drive You Crazy by Sierra Ferrell
- push me over by Maren Morris
- Football by Youth Lagoon
- Southern Star by Leif Vollebekk
- Tiny Moves by Bleachers
- Right Back to It by Waxahatchee and MJ Lenderman
- She’s Leaving You by MJ Lenderman
- One Last Dance by Baby Rose and BADBADNOTGOOD
- n.h.i.e. by 21 Savage and Doja Cat
- BIG BOYS CRY TOO by Jo Hill
- Dream Police by Mk.gee
- Love On The Outside by Wishy
- Buttered Up by Sycco
- August by Noeline Hofmann
- Bang The Bus by Maxo Kream
- How Can I Love Her More? by The Lemon Twigs
- Come Pick Me Up by John-Robert
- Frisco Blues by Lewis OfMan
- I Can’t Shake the Stranger Out of You by A. Savage
- Would If I Could by ERNEST and Lainey Wilson
- One Night/All Night by Justice and Tame Impala
- CHOO CHOO by Fizzy Orange
- Josh Tillman and the Accidental Dose by Father John Misty
- Joker Lips by MJ Lenderman
- May Ninth by Khruangbin
- Disappearing by Blu DeTiger (feat. Magdalena Bay)
- Add Up My Love by Clairo
- SATURN DAYZ by BLACKSTARKIDS
- Thinking About You by Faye Webster
- Mahashmashana by Father John Misty
- I’m Better (I’m Bad) by Moses Sumney
- Plant the Garden by Melt
- Out Of Rhythm by Lean Low and Jaydonclover
- Mary Boone by Vampire Weekend
- God’s A Different Sword by Folk Bitch Trio
- Feel by The Heavy Heavy
- Mood Ring by Dehd
- Just The Way You Are by Memphis LK
- Minor Setback by GUM and Ambrose Kenny-Smith
- Aaron by Cassandra Jenkins, Bloomsday, and Babehoven
- Scholar’s Mate by Sure Sure and Beachy Keys
- Police Scanner by Chanel Beads
- Flowers by Real Estate
- Hiding by Ben Böhmer and Lykke Li
- Thrown Around by James Blake
- Never Meant by Iron & Wine
- Heaven In Your Arms by Jessie Ware
- Picture Of Her by fanclubwallet
- Sirena by Niko Rubio (feat. Cuco)
- Not Today by Thee Marloes
- Kiss Me Again by Pale Waves
- tropical lush ice by Georgia Maq
- Midnight Cowboyyy by Eye Candy
- Noid by Tyler, the Creator
- I Said What I Said by The Softies
- That’s My Floor by Magdelena Bay
- I’m In Love (Subaru) by Sports Team
- Perfect Pinterest Garden by Porter Robinson
- Bloom by Half Happy
- 7 Up by Phoebe Go
- Fruit Wine by Origami Angel
- S P E Y S I D E by Bon Iver
- Rah Tah Tah by Tyler, The Creator
- Abigail by Soccer Mommy
- Let’s Go (Magalengha) by Ian Asher and GIULIA BE
- Hell Is Near by St. Vincent
- Lost Ones by Dr. Dog
- So Long by Bien et Toi and Paris Texas
- Prep-School Gangsters by Vampire Weekend
- Three Big Moons by Why Bonnie
- All Ur Luv by Wavedash, Madeon, and Toro y Moi
- ROCKMAN by Mk.gee
- Lying in the Sun by Kook Joey
- Bigger In Texas by Megan Thee Stallion
- Ella’s From Somewhere Else by Babehoven
- Wristwatch by MJ Lenderman
- Altar (Hosanna) by Oba Reengy, Limoblaze, and Gaise Baba
- Next Time Around by Liam Kazar
- AWARDS SEASON by Bon Iver
- The Rock by Gabe Goodman
- Quezacotl by deadmau5
- Neverender by Justice and Tame Impala
- Compromised Dirt by The Slaps
- The Billy Joel Fan Club by Mo Troper
- Body Keeps the Score by Ames
- Dollar Bill Bar by Sierra Ferrell
- all of me by 21 Savage
- Your Love (Where It’s At) by Boy Golden
- Always On The Run by The Burkharts
- she just wanna see me rn by Max Ayres
- Did You Love Somebody by Peach Pit
- Epitaph of a Small Winter by The Flamboyant Train
- Faded and Golden by Caroline Says
- Vintage by Moses Sumney
- Gates of Heaven by Horse Jumper of Love
- Patterns by Laura Marling
- Rabies by Boldy James and Harry Fraud (feat. Benny The Butcher)
- Tired Boy by Sunday (1994)
- Carefree by Wyatt C. Louis
- sick by brand new legs
- Foxglove by Haley Heynderickx
- A Country Dance by Joanna Sternberg
- Docket by Blondshell (feat. Bully)
- Light On by Dehd
- Fair Bit of Time by Field Guide
- Where Blue Light Blooms by Origami Angel
- Illusions by Jalen Ngonda
- Nomad by Clairo
- Too Far by Improvement Movement
- Family Garden by Dana and Alden and Melanie Charles
- Caroline by Laura Marling
- I Know by Thee Marloes
- What’s The Rush? by Elizabeth Moen and Squirrel Flower
- New Air by Ben Seretan
- Girls by TSHA and Rose Gray
- And They Called Her California by Ray LaMontagne
- fair by dog eyes
- From the Beginning of Time by The Flamboyant Train
- Look Who’s Back by The Nude Party
- Dead Plants by Better Joy
- Grateful For by BØRNS
- Going to Georgia by Jake Xerxes Fussell
- The Right Time by Camille Jansen
- When You’re Outside by Ducks Ltd.
- Forgive to Forget by Lucy Gaffney
- Den by Wes Parker
- Saturn by SZA
- prada dem by Gunna (feat. Offset)
- Neptunne by The Thing
- Open by World Brain
- The Angel And The Saint by Goldie Boutilier
- Spring Into Summer by Lizzy McAlpine
- pink dress by Humble the Great
- Summer 2000 Baby by TV Girl and George Clanton
- 1971 by The Flamboyant Train
- When He Comes Around by TOLEDO
- Lego Ring by Faye Webster and Lil Yachty
- Emerge (For Sarah) by Jerome Blazé
- Over by Thee Marloes
- Feed My Release by Naima Bock
- Another Life by SZA
- FromHere by NxWorries, Anderson .Paak, Knxwledge (feat. Snoop Dogg & October London)
- the harvest by Youth Lagoon
- Happiness Will by The Flamboyant train
- Dog by Annabel
- lo que dura la canción by MAGNA and Cuco
- Anyone In Love by Jalen Ngonda
- Love by Barrie
- Hide by Honeyglaze
- And The Night Has Come by The Flamboyant Train
- Like I Say (I runwaway) by Nilüfer Yanya
- Sweeter Than by Kokoroko
- Got To Be Mine by Vulfmon and Evangeline
- Esse Dia by carbeau and mokina
- Rewind by Rosali
- joy by dog eyes
- Alesis by Mk.gee
- I Told You So by Briston Maroney
- Inaka by Mei Semones
- cowboy take me away by Fire Swimmer
- Mudroom by Tiny Habits
- Should’ve Seen It Coming by Big Warm Bed
- Please Tell Me by Lightning Bug
- rain by mxmtoon
- $10 Cowboy by Charley Crockett
- Searching by Donnie & Joe Emerson
- Day By Day by Samara Joy
- Mourning Dove by Gia Margaret
- Found Buy Dilla by Portraits of Tracy (feat. Duckwrth)
- Small Change by DON WEST
- Manning Fireworks by MJ Lenderman
- pale horse by Truman Sinclair
- The Portlaoise Queen by Kean Kavanagh
- places to be by Fred again.., Anderson .Paak, and CHIKA
- Andy by Jake Xerxes Fussell
- The Lowrider (Just About Meant To Be) by CVC
- Adelaide by Nick Adduci
- DNM by Mk.gee
- Carsick by youbet
- Mouth of a Flower by Haley Heynderickx
- MERTHER by Mau P
- Somebody Please by Thee Heart Tones
- HOMESICK by Jhon Allan
- The Summer Ends by Blondshell
- Something In The Air by Lauren Mayberry
- Late! by Nicholas Cangiano
- LOSTWITHOUTMARIA by F3mii